I had to think on this too. The great thing about this project is how much I had to think and examine the ideas I have about my life and myself. I hope my kids and grandchildren remember me fondly and lovingly. But I hope they remember both the good and the bad things about me. People are the same in death as they were in life and I hate it when people pretend otherwise. I want to own who I am, the good, the bad and the ugly.